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Life

YOU ARE UNIQUE, YOU ARE PERFECT, YOU DONT NEED FIXING

Since your birth, you have been bombarded with the world expectations crafted from;- culture, rules, customs, history… and instructed to you by your parents, teachers, spiritual leaders, government, friends… You just complied and rarely you ever questioned, even a simple ”why”. Many people ( including me) go through life without realising the impact of the…

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“NOW”

How to make the most of the present? The answer doesn’t require a new set of education but just a small exercise, consciousness. When last did you pay attention to your toes? do you feel the weight of your shoulders? When last have observed you breathing? That is being present, in the now.The reality is,…

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BE BOLD, START NOW.

Previously, I shared with you the following fact; a big part of our current day is dictated by our addiction to the past memory, which in essence, is the force that drives our personality. We now know that our thoughts have a direct link with our emotional state ( See the previous article), which means…

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THE MORE WE KNOW…

It is a small, short word but a powerful one. When you get it right, the result is limitless. When I talk about change, what does it mean? In my short experience working with clients, when we talk about one’s changing, it means, “to change one’s habit”. When we have done something so many times…

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BE THE “CEO”

Why do you wake up every morning? My will to wake up every morning is driven by “the hope to change (or to better) or to maintain my current life circumstance. I keep that hope so that I must make today better than yesterday”. It is natural that, as human, we are aspired to the…

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TOLERANCE: CONTROL WITHIN

Imagine driving in the around a city like Abuja, Johannesburg, Dar es Laam or Nairobi on your way to work, dropping kids to school, to the meeting or driving to pick up, and a taxi-Combi driver pulls up his vehicle in front of you and without any warning, he stops. How does it make you…

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HOW FAITHFUL ARE YOU TO YOU?

There must be something stopping you from taking the action you want. Do you know “what is stopping you?” You would think, after all, that you know about yourself and all you have been told about the power you possess to change your circumstances, you wouldn’t find it challenging to take the right action and…

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THE PATH

In order to have a path created, one is required to repeat actions over a period of time. Without repetition, one can’t create a path. Your path is based on your internal reality, it is what I call your deepest belief. If you think there are people luckier than you to succeed, your reality of…

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HIDDEN TREASURE, CONFIDENCE

I have heard these words somewhere before; “the more you know, …” The word “confident” is a small word in letter count, but is amongst the most important ingredient for success, either in the sports arena or in the board rooms. In fact, it is a must-have ingredient for success. All (African) achiever’s stories I…

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BE IN CONTROL, BE THE DRIVER

In your life existence, there are so many things you do without an effort, without being aware that you are doing so. You never questioned how you accomplish them effortlessly?  It is probably what most of you come to recognise as the “miracle of the creation”, or you just accept them as “it is what…

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